Your safety matters to us
At Social Souls, we believe love and companionship should never come at the cost of your safety or peace of mind.
That’s why we’ve created two simple, easy-to-follow Safe Dating Guides – one for men, one for women – tailored for people aged 65 and older.
Whether you’re just starting to chat or getting ready to meet someone in person, these guides are here to help you feel informed, protected, and confident every step of the way.
👇 Choose your guide below:
👩 Safe dating guide for women over 60
Protecting yourself while finding real connection on Social Souls
While using the site
✅ Only connect with verified profiles on Social Souls — we check every profile.
⚠️ Watch out for messages that sound “too good to be true.” They usually are.
✅ Don’t share personal or financial information (like where you live or bank details).
⚠️ Never send money, no matter how emotional the story sounds.
When messaging or emailing for the first time
✅ Ask about their life, values, and past — real people are happy to open up.
⚠️ Be careful with people who say they are in love too quickly or try to flatter you constantly.
✅ Use the platform’s messaging first before moving to personal email or phone.
⚠️ Don’t share your phone number right away. Build trust first.
When speaking by phone or video
✅ Choose a safe time and place — daytime is best.
✅ Let someone close to you know you’re having a call or video chat.
⚠️ Be cautious if they dodge video calls or talk about money or health problems early on.
✅ You don’t owe anyone anything — if you feel unsure, politely end the conversation.
Meeting for the first time
✅ Meet in a public place — like a coffee shop, park, or gallery.
✅ Never invite someone to your home (or visit theirs) for a first meeting.
✅ Let a friend or family member know your plans and check in afterwards.
✅ Consider having someone nearby or ready to call if you feel uncomfortable.
⚠️ Always make your own way to and from the meeting — don’t accept lifts.
Most importantly
You deserve to feel safe, heard, and respected.
If something feels off, it probably is.
Trust your instincts. And don’t be afraid to talk to a loved one if you have concerns.
👨 Safe dating guide for men over 60
Staying safe while looking for companionship on Social Souls
While Using the Site
✅ Only trust profiles you see on Social Souls — all are checked, but always trust your gut.
⚠️ Be wary of anyone who moves too fast, makes grand promises, or avoids giving real details.
✅ Keep your personal info (like home address, bank details, or pension info) private.
⚠️ Never send money or gifts to someone you haven’t met in person.
When messaging or emailing for the first time
✅ Use kind, friendly language and look for someone who does the same.
⚠️ Watch out for anyone who says they are “in love” very quickly — it’s often a red flag.
✅ Ask questions about their life and background — genuine people will happily share.
⚠️ Be suspicious if someone avoids video calls or keeps changing their story.
When speaking by phone or video
✅ Speak during daytime hours, and let a trusted friend or family member know you’re chatting.
⚠️ Don’t feel pressured to talk about money, investments, or share anything too personal early on.
✅ It’s okay to hang up or stop chatting if something feels off — always trust your instincts.
Meeting for the first time
✅ Meet in a public place — never in private or at your home. A café, park, or museum is perfect.
✅ Let a family member or friend know where you’re going, and when you expect to be home.
✅ Take your mobile phone with you and keep it charged.
⚠️ If anything feels uncomfortable, it’s okay to end the meeting early.
Most importantly
Take things slowly. Trust is built over time.
You deserve respect, kindness, and honesty. Don’t settle for less.
Talk to a loved one if something doesn’t feel right — they’ll want to support you.